Last night was unpacking a bag of groceries I'd picked up the previous day and as I got to the bottom of the bag I thought it was heavy for being empty. I figured that I'd missed the eyeshadow palette I'd picked up, though I thought it was already on my dresser. It was a bullet! And I can't figure out how the heck it ended up there.
This is something I almost expect when Sarge is home; there are bullets everywhere. Snap caps most often (which are for practice and not explosive) but others are always floating around, too. They fall out of packs and bags after a day at the range and I never know where they'll turn up. We actually spent some time before deployment sorting the loose bullets and then giving some away. (Yay!) Last fall I was doing the "purse changeover" and had a bunch fall out of my purse. How do they end up in these odd places? I'm sure I'm not putting them in my grocery bags or purses! What work-related odds and ends do other people end up with in their homes?
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Friday, January 13, 2012
Saturday, December 31, 2011
2011
2011 was a fantastic and fantastically difficult year. I married my best friend and then lent him to the Army for a year. I have found out what true friends are and that I can't do everything by myself. I am still learning to ask for help but getting slightly better about it. I made to MA +60 and have almost completed a second graduate degree. I broke my first bone. All of these things made 2011 unforgettable but I can't say that I'm said to see it come to a close.
I have so many things to look forward to in 2012. Sarge and I will get to be together again. I get to travel to Germany for R&R this February. I will have a new niece this spring. I'll have a new brother-in-law this fall. I have a few weddings, more babies and who knows what other celebrations to enjoy. All of these are exciting and life-changing events (some for others more than me!) and I look forward to sharing them.
Thanks to all who read this and those who have commented since I started writing in July. Keep coming back and share it with someone I don't know. I've only been an Army wife for 8 months and since we've been apart for more than 5 of them I think I'll qualify for newlywed status for a looooong time. This isn't easy and there are days I wish it could be different. But, I couldn't be more proud of my husband and what he's doing and what we're accomplishing. I couldn't be more proud of what I've done this year. So, thanks for a great 2011 and time to gear up for 2012!
I have so many things to look forward to in 2012. Sarge and I will get to be together again. I get to travel to Germany for R&R this February. I will have a new niece this spring. I'll have a new brother-in-law this fall. I have a few weddings, more babies and who knows what other celebrations to enjoy. All of these are exciting and life-changing events (some for others more than me!) and I look forward to sharing them.
Thanks to all who read this and those who have commented since I started writing in July. Keep coming back and share it with someone I don't know. I've only been an Army wife for 8 months and since we've been apart for more than 5 of them I think I'll qualify for newlywed status for a looooong time. This isn't easy and there are days I wish it could be different. But, I couldn't be more proud of my husband and what he's doing and what we're accomplishing. I couldn't be more proud of what I've done this year. So, thanks for a great 2011 and time to gear up for 2012!
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Military Spouse Tag
I have never tried one of these before but figured it might be fun. It's a good prep for Veteran's Day this Friday. So, I answer the questions I found on another Army wife's blog and if you're a Military Spouse you answer them on yours. Enjoy!!
1) How did you and your spouse meet?
Sarge and I met in high school through mutual friends, though we were definitely NOT friends at the time. We ran into each other more than 10 years later as I walking home from a blind date and he was on patrol in the town. We stood and talked in the street, started texting and talking more often and the rest was history.
2) How old were you when you two met?
I think I was about 14 at the time he would have been around 16.
3) How long have you been together?
We've been together now just over 2 years.
4) Where are you and your spouse originally from?
We are originally (and still in) Rockland County, NY. We were actually born in the same hospital and went to the same schools growing up.
5) How did you feel about him joining the military?
Sarge was in the military when we started dating so I don't really know what our lives would be like without it. I'm proud of what he does though I miss him every day he's gone.
6) Where did your spouse go to Basic Training?
Fort Leonard Wood, MO
7) Has your spouse ever been deployed?
Yes, 3 times. Iraq and Afghanistan
Ever been to his promotion ceremony?
Nope
9) How long have you been a military wife?
Since April 2011. 7 months!
10) Did you marry him before or after he joined?
Long after, almost 8 years.
11) How did your husband propose?
Sitting on the couch in our living room.
12) Where did you get married?
Nyack, NY
13) How old were you two when you got married?
32 and 33
14) Did he wear his uniform on his wedding day?
Yes....and he looked so great!
15) Where are you and your spouse currently stationed?
Sarge is in Afghanistan, I'm home in NY.
16) Do you live on base?
No
17) How long were you married when you had to go through your first separation?
3 months
18) What is your favorite base so far?
N/A
19) Do you think your spouse looks good in his uniform?
Hells yeah!
20) Do you think military life is more advanced than civilian life?
I don't think I understand this question...
21) Do you like the benefits you receive as a military dependent?
Yes, I broke my foot shortly after Anthony left for training and it was nice to have a secondary insurance.
22) Do you have a lot of military wife friends?
Just a couple, wives of other soldiers in Sarge's unit
23) What is the hardest part of the military life?
Right now I think it's the separation.
24) Do you own military wife stuff?
A t-shirt and lanyard for my keys. They were laid out for me when I was packing up to leave for my parents the night before our wedding.
25) Do you support your spouse as a member of the military?
I do my best to do this, I'm sure some days I'm better than others. Right now it's sending packages and being home for Skype calls which is good for both of us.
IF YOU’RE A MILITARY SPOUSE, TAG YOU’RE IT.
1) How did you and your spouse meet?
Sarge and I met in high school through mutual friends, though we were definitely NOT friends at the time. We ran into each other more than 10 years later as I walking home from a blind date and he was on patrol in the town. We stood and talked in the street, started texting and talking more often and the rest was history.
2) How old were you when you two met?
I think I was about 14 at the time he would have been around 16.
3) How long have you been together?
We've been together now just over 2 years.
4) Where are you and your spouse originally from?
We are originally (and still in) Rockland County, NY. We were actually born in the same hospital and went to the same schools growing up.
5) How did you feel about him joining the military?
Sarge was in the military when we started dating so I don't really know what our lives would be like without it. I'm proud of what he does though I miss him every day he's gone.
6) Where did your spouse go to Basic Training?
Fort Leonard Wood, MO
7) Has your spouse ever been deployed?
Yes, 3 times. Iraq and Afghanistan
Ever been to his promotion ceremony?Nope
9) How long have you been a military wife?
Since April 2011. 7 months!
10) Did you marry him before or after he joined?
Long after, almost 8 years.
11) How did your husband propose?
Sitting on the couch in our living room.
12) Where did you get married?
Nyack, NY
13) How old were you two when you got married?
32 and 33
14) Did he wear his uniform on his wedding day?
Yes....and he looked so great!
15) Where are you and your spouse currently stationed?
Sarge is in Afghanistan, I'm home in NY.
16) Do you live on base?
No
17) How long were you married when you had to go through your first separation?
3 months
18) What is your favorite base so far?
N/A
19) Do you think your spouse looks good in his uniform?
Hells yeah!
20) Do you think military life is more advanced than civilian life?
I don't think I understand this question...
21) Do you like the benefits you receive as a military dependent?
Yes, I broke my foot shortly after Anthony left for training and it was nice to have a secondary insurance.
22) Do you have a lot of military wife friends?
Just a couple, wives of other soldiers in Sarge's unit
23) What is the hardest part of the military life?
Right now I think it's the separation.
24) Do you own military wife stuff?
A t-shirt and lanyard for my keys. They were laid out for me when I was packing up to leave for my parents the night before our wedding.
25) Do you support your spouse as a member of the military?
I do my best to do this, I'm sure some days I'm better than others. Right now it's sending packages and being home for Skype calls which is good for both of us.
IF YOU’RE A MILITARY SPOUSE, TAG YOU’RE IT.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Bittersweet Weekend
Monday morning and I'm getting ready to start laundry and some cleaning up around the condo. It's was the busiest weekend we've had in a while and I was reminded again of what great family and friends we have. We didn't stop from Friday through last night at midnight but it was worth every crazy minute.
We had dinner with new friends on Friday night. Sarge met the husband in a class he's taking for work on firearms instruction. The two guys were scary in how similar they are and I enjoyed the dinner a lot. I think this will be a good match, it can be tough to find good couples friends, especially ones who understand shift work, husbands who carry guns and how to keep a sense of humor about all of it. I really enjoyed dinner and there was a lot of laughing!
Saturday we went to pick up Sarge's nephew and then met up with friends at a nearby . We had a blast playing mini golf, laser tag and driving go-karts. We have known some of these people since high school (Sarge more than me) and it was great to see how these friendships have continued into adulthood. I know I'll be included in stuff even when Sarge is away and that's invaluable. I have learned in the last 2 years that I don't really LIKE to go to events by myself but that it's way better than sitting home alone!
Okay, so my family is awesome. I know that I am biased but they really are great. My parents and sisters threw a going away party for Sarge last night. The food was outstanding as always (my family loves food) and my entire local family was there. They kept the day upbeat instead of mopey and really got into the spirit. My sisters bought all camouflage decorations and even the dessert was red, white and blue had candles shaped like tanks and Army stars. They are too cute! My family then gave Sarge a portable DVD player and season 1 of The Walking Dead to take with him. He loves that show and just about anything involving zombies. My family really loves him and supports his service. I only wish I had remembered to bring my camera...I have NO pics from yesterday!
I had a mini-breakdown last night; I realized that all the parties and get togethers are saying goodbye. I have to work to keep from crying constantly, it's no good for me or for Sarge. I am making a huge effort to stay positive and not be a wreck. I know this is part of being an army wife, some days are just better than others...
We had dinner with new friends on Friday night. Sarge met the husband in a class he's taking for work on firearms instruction. The two guys were scary in how similar they are and I enjoyed the dinner a lot. I think this will be a good match, it can be tough to find good couples friends, especially ones who understand shift work, husbands who carry guns and how to keep a sense of humor about all of it. I really enjoyed dinner and there was a lot of laughing!
Okay, so my family is awesome. I know that I am biased but they really are great. My parents and sisters threw a going away party for Sarge last night. The food was outstanding as always (my family loves food) and my entire local family was there. They kept the day upbeat instead of mopey and really got into the spirit. My sisters bought all camouflage decorations and even the dessert was red, white and blue had candles shaped like tanks and Army stars. They are too cute! My family then gave Sarge a portable DVD player and season 1 of The Walking Dead to take with him. He loves that show and just about anything involving zombies. My family really loves him and supports his service. I only wish I had remembered to bring my camera...I have NO pics from yesterday!
I had a mini-breakdown last night; I realized that all the parties and get togethers are saying goodbye. I have to work to keep from crying constantly, it's no good for me or for Sarge. I am making a huge effort to stay positive and not be a wreck. I know this is part of being an army wife, some days are just better than others...
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